Tuesday, November 19, 2013

If Christmas Ain't Merry, then the Holidays Ain't Happy-Just Expensive...


I overheard a conversation last night talking about the rapidly approaching December Calendar.  The perennial debate of “Merry Christmas” versus “Happy Holidays” was the center of the conversation.  It got me to thinking, and reflecting.

It never used to really bother me before; the slow conversion of “Merry Christmas” to “Happy Holidays”.  For me “Happy Holidays” included Hanukkah and Kwanzaa in our collective merry-making.  And if I believed Happy Holidays was truly about including them, I’d still be okay with it.

But I am coming to believe this is not what it is all about. In “A Christmas Carol”, Scrooge said “If I could work my will, every idiot who goes about with 'Merry Christmas' on his lips, should be boiled with his own pudding.”  How many of you have met people who have that same sentiment in their eyes when you dare to say, and then defend, “Merry Christmas” instead of “Happy Holidays”?  I have met a fair number.

Maybe I am slow, or maybe I have not been watching, but there is something more going on here.  The press for “Happy Holidays” pushes our faith-based celebration to the fringe.  The world has been trying to push Jesus out of everything.  And maybe that is where it should be.  Maybe Christmas should be on the fringe, because the Reason for the Season-the birth of Jesus-has been consistently pushed out to the fringe for generations.

 Maybe, if Santa Claus is really going to take over completely, if it’s going to be all about the gifts, and the magic, and the movies, and the glitz and glamor, if Christ is being evicted from even the stable and the manger, maybe “Happy Holidays” is the appropriate title for the Season, from Dec. 25 on back to Thanksgiving…no…Halloween…no…Labor Day…  If we let the world win…

If you want some real perspective on the whole Holiday Spirit of Christmas, go back and READ Charles Dickens “A Christmas Carol”.  Don’t watch the movie or television adaptations (although George C. Scott and Mr. Magoo are PILLARS in the role of Scrooge).  When you read the original (and the English is not THAT old), what Dickens keeps coming back to as the story unfolds of one man’s redemption, are ongoing references to the birth of Christ, and the spirit of that birth being foundational to Scrooge’s redemption, and to the whole holiday.

Christmas is about the birth of Jesus.  Christmas is about gifts, because of the goodwill at the birth of…Jesus.  The glitz and the glamor and the magic, trees to angels, Santa to fruitcake, all of it is a Celebration of…the birth of Jesus.  And while the world may not want it, Jesus came down to save that world.  So, Merry Christmas to all!

1 comment:

  1. I agree to a point. I think since Christmas has been so commercialized it doesn't really matter what you say because it's all about making money and not about the birth of Jesus. Let's leave Christmas at the fringes and bring back the true meaning of the season by saying "Happy Birthday" instead!

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